- Girlfags are not fag hags – fag hags enjoy gay men as company; girlfags enjoy them as bedmates and peers.
- Girlfags are everywhere. Janet notes, “I get much the same reaction when I mention 'girlfags’ as I used to when I talked about 'ethical sluts’ – a sudden lighting up of the eyes, a giggle, and a startled 'Hey, that’s *me*!"’ And Facebook groups, Yahoo groups, a Wikipedia entry, a Livejournal blog, and a television series called Girls Who Like Boys Who Like Boys offer signs that The Age of the Girlfag is at hand.
- Janet’s book Girlfag: A Life Told In Sex and Musicals is a memoir, and much more. It visits girlfags past and present (from Pharaoh Hatshepsut through Mary Renault), it meanders through the shifting meanings of gender and orientation, and it spends a whole lot of time at the theater (Janet is not just a girlfag, she’s also a showtune queen).
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